Changing home climate by dealing with negativity

I can be an actor( physical body) and an observor(I, the soul). Respect others they are a soul too.
Do not move from your position of inner stability and purity then their negativity will flow from around you but not through you. It is like having a layer of protection so my inner stability and purity remains unaffected by outside influence. It is like having protection through detachment and yet not allowing them to touch me.

Do not allow the build up of negativity to happen. Everyone has lots of pluses and we have to have the right vision to see it. Try appreciating their values and you will see that negativity is in me.
I cannot change them but I can change my attitude.
Create respect and love for them.

If I react negatively, then barrier gets created and communication is difficult.
Try seeing their divine nature, so change your attitude and then a good level of communication will arise and at the right time we can talk about things and a change can take place.

This will bring change in the environment, family and home and society.

How to seperate the soul from the physical body.

People have acquired wealth and many people identify themselves with what they own.
Scratch on their BMW would upset them ( it would upset me too) but it is a car only. Use it but do not get attached to it. If you have expensive car, tomorrow you do not have it, you will loose your peace of mind. People are not content. Do not get attached to your possessions. Material values are not that important. They are secondary.

Share the qualities of your inner being with their inner being.
Do not judge others with their clothes but with their deeds. But we do judge by their clothes though ( should change). You are your inner being, your body is souls house.

If soul is the driver of a car, car is your body, then soul has to decide what fuel to put in. Car should be in good condition to run.

Do I know myself in my daily life?

I feel I know all about myself. I know my weight, length, width, my habits etc all external, physical outside body characteristics.
But my inside that no one knows is my thoughts, feelings, emotions and personality no one knows except me.
I am unique because of my inside. I am unique because of my soul.

I have a connection with my so and so friend because my soul is communicating with her soul. Souls can communicate with thoughts, vibrations and energy flow.

Just as a driver of a car cannot fall asleep, same way our body driver( soul) cannot fall asleep. There will be a big problem if this happens. It means driver is not taking responsibility.

Some people love to talk and talk that others sitting beside them can get bored. Inner being must take charge and ask her to stop because her tongue has taken charge. Inner being must ask her to stop.

You love eating mangoes. Eating one mango makes you feel good. I could go on eating more if my taste buds take over. My inner being must take charge and say " STOP".

I, the soul, the master of the physical body must take charge.