As we say, relationship is an exchange of energy between people, same way, communication is also at energy transfer along with exchange of words. If you say all the positive stuff to the other person but you think negative about the person inside you , then the person is getting conflicting messages , so stress gets created and confusion occurs. Person is hearing positive words but the energy from you that he/she is receiving is negative, so confusion gets created. Though you did not say anything negative to the person, but that person is still not happy with you. You wonder "why is she still not happy with me". I did say all the right stuff but the energy transfer was not positive from your side.
Communication should be right at the word level and message should go with the right energy transfer too so someone gets the right message.
Use soft voice and talk slowly.
Change your vibrational energy to change communication. Communication cannot be just at the word level.
This is great advice and I learned a few things from reading this. Great Blog Mrs.Bajaj.
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